Unresolved frustration breeds bitterness, and resentment, and loneliness, and disconnection .... And and and and nothing good!! When we are frustrated with our partners it is easy for this to escalate into negative thoughts about them as people, incorrect assumptions and unkind labels such as “you are so selfish”! I have found generalised superlatives such a “you always” and “you never” wedge a big space between us. Invariably one of us will be on the attack and the other on